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This leaflet has been designed
to make you think twice about how you view people who suffer from
anorexia and bulimia.
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The campaign to increase the
understanding of mental health problems and reduce their [stigma]
and discrimination.
They say size isn't important. But
when does a girl become a woman? Is it when she is seventeen? Or
when she has her first kiss? No, it is when she no longer looks
like a girl. But that isn't all of it.
A woman is woman-sized. She is also
mature, responsible, motherly, caring, supportive, submissive,
strong, reliable, successful, sensual, compassionate, kind,
sensible and … that is a bit much when you are forty let alone
fourteen. No wonder it takes time to grow into and come to terms
with the shape that nature has given you
It can be a problem discovering what
sort of woman-sized woman to be. It is not just about being fat or
thin. It is about being gay or straight, or a mother or a daughter,
working, playing, anything that makes life what it is. It is about
control of your impulses and destiny.
Sometimes it seems impossible to
control all this. Or if you do everything might go wrong. You might
not fit anymore and everything will fall apart.
One way of coping is to develop an
eating disorder. The girl who starves herself to a low weight shows
desperate determination. She knows exactly what she needs to be.
Child-sized. But she can’t be eleven forever. Her body is growing.
The world is moving on and expecting her to come with it. It
becomes irresistible. Maybe she will eat, but she will vomit until
she is happy to be woman-sized.
1. Anorexia and bulimia
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This girl thinks Marilyn Monroe is great. She hates Kate Moss.
She thinks Kate Moss is thinner than she is.
The girl with anorexia is convinced that she is fat even
though she is not. She is so fixed in this belief that it seems
like she is being stubborn, or stupid. In fact she has her back to
the wall.
She has to be the thinnest person in the world. It’s the only
way she can survive. She’s on a knife edge. Too fat and she has to
face the world. Too thin and she dies. Being in the world is so
awful she would rather die.
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2. Anorexia and bulimia
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This girl would rather die than eat a cheese sandwich. It’s
not that she isn’t hungry. She is starving. It’s that if she eats
she will put on weight. If she puts on weight she will go totally
out of control. She will grow and grow and grow. And everything
that she is terrified of will happen.
The girl with anorexia nervosa doesn’t have a problem with
being fat. She has a problem with being woman-sized. Becoming a
woman means growing up, leaving home, trying to have relationships
but not rupturing family links. This is frightening for everyone.
For her it is petrifying. Starving makes time stand still.
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3. Anorexia and bulimia
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If this girl thought she was going to put on weight she would
throw up.
She wants to be thin. She wants to eat.
Women with bulimia binge and may then vomit. They feel they
cannot control life. They are taken over by the urge to eat. They
cannot stop themselves. So they make themselves sick. If they
didn’t, they’d get fat and they couldn’t bear that.
The girl with bulimia is in a no-win situation. She has two
intense and conflicting desires. Vomiting is the only way she can
either protect her low weight, if she has anorexia nervosa, or
avoid becoming really fat if she has bulimia nervosa.
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4. Anorexia and bulimia
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If you are what you eat then this girl is nothing. She used to
eat a bowl of cereal a day. Now she can manage half a carrot. When
she starves herself she is somebody.
Her behaviour fills those around her with fear and
frustration. They cannot understand why she won’t eat. They say,
‘It’s easy, all you have to do is pick up a knife and fork’.
She can’t get them to understand. It is hard to explain the
fear she has. How can she tell them she would rather die than be a
normal adult weight and shape?
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5. Anorexia and bulimia
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When she looks in the mirror this girl sees a fatty. She is
blind to the hip bones and the ribs. She sees the slightly swollen
belly. The bud of a breast. The curve of a thigh.
And they disgust her. As she disgusts herself when she eats a
cream cake. As they make her want to be sick. Or hide. Under huge
jumpers, massive coats. Invisible and shrinking under layers of
cloth.
As she jogs on the spot she mutters her mantra: 'when I don't
eat I am in control', 'when I am thin I am safe'.
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FACTS ABOUT ANOREXIA AND
BULIMIA
What are anorexia and
bulimia?
Anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa are the two main eating
disorders. People with anorexia have extreme weight loss as a
result of very strict dieting. Some people may also make themselves
sick, abuse laxatives or do excessive exercise to try and lose
weight. In spite of this extreme weight loss, people with anorexia
believe they are fat and are terrified of becoming what is in fact
a normal weight or shape. About four out of ten people with fully
established anorexia make a full recovery, and others improve. Only
about three in ten continue to have major long-term illness.
Untreated, about 15 per cent of all sufferers will die from the
disorder within 20 years of its onset.
People with bulimia nervosa
crave food and binge eat, though they are not emaciated. Afterwards
they make themselves sick or misuse laxatives to get the food out
of their bodies. Sufferers are very afraid of becoming fat.
Who has anorexia or
bulimia?
Anorexia nervosa most
commonly starts in the mid-teens. About one in a hundred 16 to 18
year olds has the illness. It is much more common in girls. Bulimia
nervosa usually starts when people are a little older, but is again
more common in girls. Bulimia is more common than anorexia,
although people with anorexia in particular do not always ask for
treatment.
Occasionally men develop
eating disorders, but anorexia nervosa is rare. Male development in
puberty is very different from that of females. Related bodily
concerns are different and less often lead to the extremes of
dieting which commonly precede anorexia nervosa.
What causes eating
disorders?
Eating disorders may
develop partly in response to difficult life experiences such as
abuse or social pressures arising in puberty and in growing up.
They are also more common in cultures where it is considered
desirable to be slim. Genetic factors seem to be important,
especially in anorexia. Sometimes people with an eating disorder
are depressed, and they may have obsessions.
What treatments are
available?
Mental health professionals
need a variety of skills to treat people with eating disorders. A
doctor can help diagnose the illness and any associated physical
problems resulting from it. In both anorexia nervosa and bulimia,
self-help strategies can be very helpful. If this approach does not
work, health professionals may suggest a course of psychotherapy.
If someone has lost a dangerous amount of weight, the first step
will be to help the person start to regain that weight in order to
survive. Some people with anorexia may need to be admitted to
hospital and the nursing staff has an important role in supporting
the patient in the early stages of treatment. Psychological and
psychotherapy skills are also necessary at this acute stage, so
that the mental health team can begin to understand why the illness
developed and how to help the person to overcome it.
In anorexia, this talking
treatment will involve the individual with the illness and
sometimes other family members. The long-term aim will be to help
that person change their attitude, behaviour and ways of thinking,
and enable them to cope with the strains of life without the
illness as a protection. Shorter-term expert talking treatments and
also specific cognitive behavioural treatments are often effective
with bulimia nervosa.
What can society
do?
We can strive better to
understand the distress that underlies and drives these disorders.
We can provide access to such information and develop health
promotion campaigns aimed at teenagers and young people.
Information on how to cope with feelings and fears about growth or
about being too fat is useful. We can offer more support in
secondary schools and user-friendly services for troubled
teenagers.
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Further reading
Bulimia Nervosa:
Overcoming Binge Eating (1995).
Christopher Fairburn. Guildford Press.
Bulimia Nervosa:
Getting Better Bit(e) by Bit(e) (1993).
Ulrich Schmidt and Janet Treasure.
Psychology Press.
The Essential Handbook of Eating
Disorders (2005) Janet Treasure. John Wiley & Sons Ltd
When dieting becomes dangerous: a guide
to understansing and treating anorexia and bulimia (2003) Arthur
Crisp, Deborah M Michel and Susan G Willard Yale University
Press.
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Self-help
beat
(formerly the Eating Disorders Association, EDA)
A national charity offering help and information to people with
anorexia and bulimia nervosa, their families and friends.
- Adult Helpline (over 18 years of
age): 08456 341414
help@b-eat.co.uk
- Youthline (up to and including 18
years of age): 08456 347650. Text service: 07786 20 18 20
fyp@b-eat.co.uk
Bodywhys - The Eating Disorders
Association of Ireland
Providing help and information to people affected by eating
disorders.
Helpline: 1890 200 444
info@bodywhys.ie
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Sculptures and photographs by Shelley Wilson.
Other photographs by Vaughan Melzer.
Last update: August 2006
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Acknowledgements
We would like to thank Dr V Y
Allison-Bolger and Dr R L Ramsay for their tremendous help in
writing these booklets and factsheets. Our thanks also go to the
Campaign Management Committee and to the members of the College
Faculties and Sections who have generously given their advice and
help.
Professor Arthur Crisp
Chairman,
Changing Minds Campaign Management Committee
For further information about the
Campaign, please e-mail: stigma@rcpsych.ac.uk
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