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depression   THIS BOOKLET HAS BEEN DESIGNED TO MAKE YOU THINK TWICE ABOUT HOW YOU VIEW PEOPLE WHO SUFFER FROM DEPRESSION
Changing Minds


The campaign to increase the understanding of mental health problems and reduce their [stigma] and discrimination.

 
Most of us have had times when we have been down. We have all been unhappy. Some of us will have had depression. Depression is an illness when the sadness has gone too far.
 
Depression can look like ordinary unhappiness. The difference is the effect. If you’re unhappy you may look miserable and cry, but you can probably still go out. You might not feel like it, but with an effort you can do the things you usually do. You can even cheer up for a bit. Other people know that, and they try to take you out of yourself.
 
With depression, this doesn’t always work. She doesn’t laugh at your jokes anymore. She doesn’t notice the flowers when you go for a walk. Or more likely she won’t even go for a walk. As she sits about doing nothing, you might get angry. It’s easy to think that she is not making an effort. She may say you don’t know how she feels.
 
She feels terrible. Nothing has any point anymore. Everything that mattered is meaningless. Partners, work, children - everything she felt passionate about is like nothing. She takes no pleasure. She sees no joy.
 
Nothing she does seems to change it. She tries to do something but it doesn’t work out. She forgets the cake and burns it. She can’t think of anything to say to her friends. She knows it’s not right but she doesn’t know what’s wrong except that it is her fault. She isn’t being a good person. She is letting everyone down. She cannot imagine it ever changing. She feels helpless and hopeless. She may even completely despair.
 
People who are depressed sometimes kill themselves. One thing they say is that they feel everyone would be better off without them. That’s where they are wrong. Caring for someone who is depressed can be hard. But it is not as bad as she imagines it is. A person who isn’t pulling her weight can feel like a burden. But that is not for her to decide. Those close to her are the ones to say when it is too much. When it gets too much for everyone there is always help. Other friends, other people, professionals. Depression can be treated.
 

 
1. Depression

depression  
This young girl went to bed last night and prayed she wouldn’t wake up. She did. At four in the morning. It is still the middle of the night. She can’t go back to sleep. What is she doing?
 
Often people with depression wake early in the mornings. It is then that they feel at their worst. The day ahead seems unbearable. Everything is such a struggle. They feel like a waste of space.
 
If this goes on she might think that everyone would be better off without her. She might try and kill herself. She might even succeed. It doesn’t have to be that way. Depression is a curable illness.
 

 
2. Depression
 
depression  
This man has been looking at this clock all morning.
And as far as he can tell it hasn't moved. What is he doing?
 
Sometimes people with depression feel like they can’t do anything. The world just grinds to a halt. All they see is endless hours. Hours of doing nothing. Hours of feeling nothing. Hours of being nobody.
 
If this gets really bad, he might stop eating and drinking. He could even just turn his face to the wall and die. Fortunately there are effective treatments for this.
 

 
3. Depression

 
depression  
This man has been watching football all evening. But if you ask him he has no idea who has scored. What is he doing?
People with depression have trouble concentrating. They say they don’t enjoy things as they used to. They can’t follow what’s going on. They do things wrong like forgetting to buy the milk. People around them can find this annoying.
 
Why doesn’t he pull himself together? – Is he just feeling sorry for himself? Wouldn’t you if everything seemed pointless? If you took no pleasure in anything at all? Your family, your work, your mates? Football?
 

 
4. Depression

depression  
This woman's friend has just asked her how she is. She has just burst into tears. What is she doing?
 
People with depression feel sad. They may cry. They may not be able to say why. They may say they don’t understand it. They may have got everything they could ever want.
 
This is hard for the woman and her loved ones. It is difficult to understand why she is unhappy when there is no need for it. She has got the house, she has got the baby, friends, money, people who love her. What’s there to be upset about? Often there is not any one thing. There may be many – stress, worry, tiredness, problems from the present or the past. Giving no reason does not mean there is no cause.
 

 
5. Depression
 
depression  
It is three in the morning and he hasn’t got a home to go to. He’s got a place to sleep. But he says he’s never had a home or, rather, he’s had too many. His Mum’s, his foster parents’, that children’s place, his other foster parents’, the army. Until he got kicked out. He cut his wrists. Or was it an overdose? He’s hurt himself that many times he’s lost track.
 
Depression affects people in different ways. Some people become self-destructive. They drink too much, drive too fast, get into fights and dangerous relationships. And they harm themselves. Others say it’s just a cry for help. People who really kill themselves don’t tell anyone about it. Maybe they do, but no-one is listening.
 

FACTS ABOUT DEPRESSION
 
What is depression?
 
When people are severely depressed, they feel that life has little to offer them and that things will never get better. This low mood is more than being fed-up or unhappy. We can all feel sad from time to time, especially after a recent loss or for no reason at all.
 
Depression is an illness that can be treated and should not be ignored. With skilled help and the chance to talk, most people will recover after several months. For others it may take longer and the depression may return. Occasionally people feel so hopeless that they think about, or even commit, suicide.
 
In manic depression or bipolar affective disorder, people will suffer not only from episodes of depression, but also episodes of mania. At these times a person’s mood becomes very ‘high’ and there will be a change in behaviour. The person who is ill may act recklessly, for example spending lots of money and running up large debts.
 
Who suffers from depression?
 
At least one person in five will suffer from a depressive illness at some point in their life. It appears to be more common in women than men because women are more likely to seek help than men. It occurs at any age, even in children and young people. Bipolar affective disorder is less common affecting one person in 100 and affects both men and women.
 
What causes depression?
 
There are a number of reasons why people become depressed. These may include: reactions to life events and stresses, and genetic or biological factors. Early experiences in life and losses through bereavement or the break-up of a relationship may trigger episodes of depression, and perhaps mania. A number of physical illnesses are also linked with depression, such as infections like influenza, and disorders of the thyroid gland.
 
Family studies suggest that manic depression in particular sometimes runs in families. There may be an abnormality in brain biochemistry involving a chemical messenger called serotonin.
 
What treatments are available?
 
In a mild episode of depression a person may find that, with support from family or friends, the symptoms improve by themselves. Talking through problems can help resolve any life stresses that may have caused the illness. If the symptoms persist for more than two weeks, people may need to seek professional advice, initially from their family doctor.
 
There are a number of ways of treating depression. Medication with antidepressants can help relieve the symptoms and prevent future episodes. The drugs work by acting on the chemical messengers in the brain.
 
Talking therapies such as relationship based psychotherapy can be useful; also problem-solving therapies and cognitive therapy in which the therapist, often a psychologist, helps a person learn to identify and challenge faulty, negative patterns of thinking. Support from family and friends is vital. Other activities, such as regular exercise, can help lift the depression.
 
If the symptoms do not improve, or a person feels suicidal, the family doctor may refer the individual to a specialist mental health team. Members of the team will have a range of skills which enable them to make a full assessment of a person’s background, social, psychological and living skills, in order to understand their problems and to formulate a treatment plan. The team may be able to offer more intensive support at home, and if needed, hospital admission.
 
The person with depression can help himself by learning how to relax, to do the things he enjoys and by taking exercise. If he learns about his symptoms and what makes them better or worse, he can learn to control them. He can also see that they do not last forever, which can help him to feel more hopeful about the future.
 
What can society do?
 
Public education can help us to have a better understanding of the nature of depression. With this understanding should come increased tolerance. We need to understand that depression and manic depression are more than ordinary feelings of unhappiness. They can have a major effect on someone’s ability to carry on with day to day living. People with these disorders, and their families, need support in seeking help and getting treatment. Educating employers about depression and the way it affects a person’s ability to work, should improve opportunities for training and employment. Better social conditions, such as improved housing and lower levels of unemployment, would help reduce some of the environmental stresses people experience.
 

 
Further reading
 
So Young, So Sad, So Listen
(2005) Philip Graham and Carol Hughes.
Dealing with depression in children
and adolescents.
Available from Book Sales,
Royal College of Psychiatrists,
17 Belgrave Square, London SW1X 8PG
 
 
See also: our Help is at Hand leaflet on depression.

Self-help Organisations

 

MDF The Bipolar Organisation
Castle Works, 21 St. George's Road
London SE1 6ES
Tel: 08456 340 540 (UK only)
Tel: 0044 207 793 2600 (Rest of world)
Provides support, advice and information for people with manic depression, their friends and carers.
 
Depression Alliance
Depression Alliance
212 Spitfire Studios, 63 - 71 Collier Street, London N1 9BE
Tel: 0845 123 23 20
Information, support and understanding for people who suffer with depression and for relatives who want to help.
 
AWARE - Helping to defeat depression
72 Lower Leeson Street
Dublin 2 Ireland
Helpline: 1890 303 302
Assists and supports those suffering from depression and their families in Ireland
 

All subjects in photographs are posed by models
Photography by Vaughan Melzer
Last update: August 2006


Acknowledgements
 
We would like to thank Dr V Y Allison-Bolger and Dr R L Ramsay for their tremendous help in writing these booklets and factsheets. Our thanks also go to the Campaign Management Committee and to the members of the College Faculties and Sections who have generously given their advice and help.

Professor Arthur Crisp
Chairman,
Changing Minds Campaign Management Committee
 
For further information about the Campaign, please e-mail: stigma@rcpsych.ac.uk
 

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