Being bullied ...

Jax's story, age 14

 

"I don’t know whether it has ever happened to you? It started when Justine came into our class. I was friends with Joanne and Justine wanted to hang round with us. It was OK at first but then she and Jo began laughing about things and I didn’t know what was funny. They had secrets they wouldn’t tell me. They started nicking my things and pretending I had lost them. I stopped hanging around with them and sat next to Lucy in English and Science. She was my friend from primary school.

 

Then they started spreading rumours about me. They said I was a slag and slept with Pete Smithson. They said I was pregnant. They started sending me horrible text messages. They got everyone against me. I didn’t want to tell her – but my Mum found out when I told her because she found me crying in my room.

 

I wouldn’t go to school. Mum went to school and spoke to Miss Ratcliffe but she said they, the teachers, hadn’t seen anything and they couldn’t do anything about it. I got really down. My Mum went to school and got angry because I was missing so much school. They got everyone together and changed my form. They also gave me a mentor. Things are better now but I still don’t speak to Jo and Justine – although they aren’t friends anymore."

© 2008 Royal College of Psychiatrists