When Mum Died (third edition)
Sheila Hollins and Lester Sireling. Illustrated by Beth Webb.
When Mum Died and When Dad
Died take a gentle, honest and straightforward approach to
death and grief in the family. The pictures tell the story of the
death of a parent in a simple but moving way. The approach is
non-denominational. When Dad
Died illustrates a burial, while When Mum Died
shows a cremation.
The greatly expanded text in these third editions includes
information on how people are likely to react when someone is very
ill and to their death. It explores difficult emotions, possible
physical feelings and behaviour changes. Guidance is given on how
to relate to a bereaved person and how to answer the questions ‘How
do we feel when someone dies?’, ‘What happens after someone dies?’
and ‘How long does it take to get back to normal?’. There is advice
for support staff and carers of those with learning disabilities
(including how to formulate guidelines and a sample bereavement
questionnaire), plus information on useful written resources and
bereavement organisations that can offer further help.
These books will be helpful to adolescents and adults with
learning disabilities as well as for their carers and supporters.
In addition, children without learning disabilities will
appreciate these books as they adopt a more direct approach to
death than is usual.
“Excellent value …a welcome resource for
anyone helping the person with a learning disability to learn more
about coping with death.”
Learning Disability
Practice
“When I first looked through the books I had a
clear idea of what I felt the pictures were telling me. However,
the first time I used the book with a client I was struck at how
different he saw the pictures and how he was able to make it his
story. It was then that I realised what a powerful tool the book
was and how much it was open to interpretation.”
Counselling Children and Young
People