Sleeping Well

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If you have trouble sleeping - or know someone who has - this leaflet is for you. It covers common problems with sleep, as well as some of the more unusual problems that can happen.  There are some simple tips on how to sleep better, and how to decide if you need professional help.

Introduction

You don't usually need to think very much about sleep. It's just a part of life's routine, but most people do find it hard to sleep at some point. There's even a word for it - insomnia. It's often just for a short time, perhaps when you're worried or excited. When things settle down, you get back to sleeping normally. If you can't get back to sleeping well, it can be a real problem because sleep keeps our minds and bodies healthy.

What is sleep?

Sleep is the regular period in every 24 hours when we are unconscious and unaware of our surroundings. There are two main types of sleep:
  • Rapid Eye Movement (REM) sleep

It comes and goes throughout the night, and makes up about one fifth of our sleep. The brain is very active, our eyes move quickly from side to side and we dream, but our muscles are very relaxed.
  • Non-REM sleep

The brain is quiet, but the body may move around. Hormones are released into the bloodstream and the body repairs itself after the wear and tear of the day. There are 4 stages of non-REM sleep:

  1. The muscles relax, the heart beats slower and body temperature falls - 'pre-sleep'.
  2. 'Light sleep' - you can still be woken easily without feeling confused.
  3. 'Slow wave' sleep - our blood pressure falls, you may talk in your sleep or sleep walk.
  4. 'Deep slow wave' sleep - you are very hard to wake. If somebody does wake you, you feel confused.

 

We move between REM and non-REM sleep about 5 times throughout the night, dreaming more towards the morning.
 
During a normal night, you will wake up for 1 or 2 minutes every 2 hours or so. You aren't usually aware of these 'mini wakes', but may remember them if you feel anxious or there is something else going on - noises outside, your partner snoring etc.

How much sleep do we need?

This mainly depends on your age.
  • Babies sleep for about 17 hours each day.
  • Older children only need 9 or 10 hours each night.
  • Most adults need around 8 hours sleep each night.
  • Older people need the same amount of sleep, but will often only have one period of deep sleep during the night, usually in the first 3 or 4 hours. After that, they wake more easily. We also tend to dream less as we get older.
 
There are also differences between people of the same age. Most of us need 8 hours a night, but some (a few) people will get by with only 3 hours a night.
 
The short periods of being awake can feel much longer than they really are. So you can easily feel that you are not sleeping as much as you are.

What if I don't sleep?

It's easy to worry when you can't sleep. The occasional night without sleep will make you feel tired the next day, but it won't harm your physical or mental health.
 
However, after several sleepless nights, you will start to find that:
  • you are tired all the time
  • you drop off during the day
  • you find it difficult to concentrate
  • you find it hard to make decisions
  • you start to feel depressed.

 

This can be very dangerous if you are driving or operating heavy machinery. Many deaths are caused each year by people falling asleep at the wheel while driving.
 
Lack of sleep can make you more likely to get high blood pressure, diabetes and be overweight.

Sleep problems in adult life

Sleeping too little (Insomnia)
You may feel that you aren't getting enough sleep or that, even if you do get the hours, you just aren't getting a good night's rest.
 
There are many everyday reasons for not sleeping well:
  • the bedroom may be too noisy, too hot or too cold
  • the bed may be uncomfortable or too small
  • you don't have a regular sleep routine
  • you partner has a different pattern of sleep from you
  • you aren't getting enough exercise
  • you eat too late - and find it hard to get off to sleep
  • you go to bed hungry - and wake up too early
  • cigarettes, alcohol and drinks containing caffeine, such as tea and coffee
  • illness, pain or a high temperature.

 

More serious reasons include:

  • emotional problems
  • difficulties at work
  • anxiety and worry
  • depression - you wake very early and can't get back to sleep
  • thinking over and over about problems.

Helping yourself

Here are some simple tips that many people find helpful:
 
Do's
  • Make sure that your bed and bedroom are comfortable - not too hot, not too cold, not too noisy.
  • Make sure that your mattress supports you properly. If it's too firm, your hips and shoulders are under pressure. If it's too soft, your body sags, which is bad for your back. Generally, you should replace your mattress every 10 years to get the best support and comfort. 
  • Get some exercise. Don't overdo it, but try some regular swimming or walking. The best time to exercise is in the daytime - particularly late afternoon or early evening. Later than this can disturb your sleep.
  • Take some time to relax properly before going to bed. Some people find aromatherapy helpful.
  • If something is troubling you and there is nothing you can do about it right away, try writing it down before going to bed and then tell yourself to deal with it tomorrow.
  • If you can't sleep, get up and do something relaxing. Read, watch television or listen to quiet music. After a while you should feel tired enough to go to bed again.

 

Don'ts

  • Don't go without sleep for a long time - go to bed when you are tired and stick to a routine of getting up at the same time every day, whether you still feel tired or not.
  • Caffeine hangs around in your body for many hours after your last drink of tea or coffee. Stop drinking tea or coffee by mid-afternoon. If you want a hot drink in the evening, try something milky or herbal (but check there's no caffeine in it).
  • Don't drink a lot of alcohol. It may help you fall asleep, but you will almost certainly wake up during the night.
  • Don't eat or drink a lot late at night. Try to have your supper early in the evening rather than late.
  • If you've had a bad night, don't sleep in the next day - it will make it harder to get off to sleep the following night.
  • Don't use slimming tablets - many of these will tend to keep you awake.
  • Don't use street drugs like Ecstasy, cocaine and amphetamines - they are stimulants, and like caffeine, will tend to keep you awake. 
 
If you try these tips and you still can't sleep, go and see your doctor. You can talk over any problems that may be stopping you from sleeping. Your doctor can make sure that your sleeplessness is not being caused by a physical illness, a prescribed medicine, or emotional problems. There is some evidence that cognitive behavioural therapy can be helpful if you haven't been sleeping well for some time.
 

Psychological Treatments

Cognitive therapy is a way of changing unhelpful ways of thinking that can make you more anxious, and so stop you from sleeping.
 
Stimulus control helps you to:
  • strengthen the link of being in bed with sleeping - by only getting into bed when you feel tired, and only using your bed for sleep and sex.
  • weaken the link of being in bed with doing things that are likely to keep you awake - like watching exciting TV programmes, doing work, or organising things.
  • weaken the link of being in bed with anxious worrying - if you can't get out of bed and do something instead of lying in bed worrying.

 

Progressive muscle relaxation helps you to relax your muscles deeply. One by one, you tense and then release the muscles of your body, working up from your legs, arms, shoulders, face and neck.

Can medication help?

People have used sleeping tablets for many years, but we now know that they:

  • don't work for very long
  • make you tired and irritable the next day
  • lose their effect quite quickly, so you have to take more and more to get the same effect
  • are quite addictive. The longer you take sleeping tablets, the more likely you are to become dependent on them.

There are some newer sleeping tablets (Zolpidem, Zalpelon and Zopiclone), but these seem to have many of the same drawbacks as the older drugs, such as Nitrazepam, Temazepam and Diazepam.

 

Sleeping tablets should only be used for short periods (less than 2 weeks) - for instance, if you are so distressed that you cannot sleep at all.

 

If you have been on sleeping tablets for a long time, it is best to cut down the dose slowly after discussing it with your doctor.

 

In some cases, antidepressant tablets can be helpful.

 

Over the counter medication
You can buy sleeping remedies at your chemist without a prescription. They often contain an anti-histamine, like you find in medicines for hay-fever, coughs and colds. These do work, but they can make you sleepy well into the next morning. If you do use them, take the warnings seriously and don't drive or operate heavy machinery the next day. Another problem is tolerance - as your body gets used to the substance, you need to take more and more to get the same effect. It is best not to take anti-histamines for a long time.

 

Herbal medicines are usually based on a herb called Valerian. It probably works best if you take it every night for 2-3 weeks or more. It doesn't seem to work as well if you take it occasionally. As with the anti-histamines, you need to be careful about the effects lasting into the following morning. If you are taking any medication for your blood pressure (or any other sleeping tablets or tranquillisers), have a chat with your doctor before using an over the counter remedy.

Sleeping at the wrong time - shift work and parenthood

Your may have to work at night and to stay awake when you would normally be asleep. If you only have to do this occasionally, it's quite easy to adjust. It is much more difficult if you have to do it regularly. Shift workers, doctors and nurses working all night, or nursing mothers may all find that they sleep at times when they ought to be awake. It's like jet lag where rapid travel between time zones means that you are awake when everybody else is asleep.

 

A good way to get back to normal is to make sure that you wake up quite early, at the same time every morning - whatever time you fell asleep the night before.  Use an alarm clock to help you. Make sure that you don't go to bed again before about 10 pm that night. If you do this for a few nights, you should soon start to fall asleep naturally at the right time.

Sleeping too much

You may find that you are falling asleep during the day at times when you want to stay awake. It's usually due to not getting enough sleep at night.
 
If you find that you are still falling asleep in the daytime even after a week or two of getting enough sleep, see your doctor.  Sometimes, a physical illness can be responsible - diabetes, a viral infection, or a thyroid problem.
 
There are other conditions which make people sleep too much:
 
Narcolepsy (daytime sleepiness)
This is an uncommon and so may be missed by doctors.

There are two main symptoms:
  • You feel sleepy in the daytime, with sudden uncontrollable attacks of sleepiness even when you are with other people.
  • You suddenly lose control of your muscles and collapse when you are angry, laughing or excited - this is called cataplexy. It will sometimes get better with age. 

 

You may also find that you:
  • can't speak or move when falling asleep or waking up - (sleep paralysis)
  • hear odd sounds or see dream-like images (hallucinations)
  • 'run on auto-pilot' - you have done things, but can't remember doing them, as if you had been asleep
  • wake with hot flushes during the night.

 

The cause for narcolepsy has recently been found - a lack of a substance called orexin, or hypocretin.
 
Treatment consists of taking regular exercise and having a regular night time routine. If this simple approach does not work, medication may help - an antidepressant or a drug which increases wakefulness such as Modafinil. Antidepressants such as Clomipromine or Fluoxetine can help cataplexy, along with a new medication called Sodium Oxybate.
 
Sleep Apnoea (interrupted sleep)
 
  • You snore loudly and stop breathing for short periods during the night. This happens because the upper part of your airway closes.
  • Every time you stop breathing, you wake suddenly and your body or arms and legs may jerk.
  • You stay awake just for a short time, then fall off to sleep again.

This happens several times during the night. So, you feel tired the next day, often with an irresistible urge to go to sleep. You may also have a dry mouth and a headache when you wake up in the morning.

 

You are more likely to get sleep apnoea if you are:
  • older 
  • overweight
  • a smoker
  • a heavy drinker

 

The problem is often noticed more by their partner than by the sufferer. Treatment is usually simple - cutting down smoking and drinking, losing weight, and sleeping in a different position. If your apnoea is very bad, you may need to wear a Continuous Positive Airway Pressure (CPAP) mask. This fits over your nose and supplies high pressure air which keeps your airway open.

Other problems with sleeping

At some point in their life, about 1 in 20 adults have night terrors, and 1 in 100 report that they sleep-walk. Both these conditions are more common in children.

 

Sleepwalking
If you sleepwalk, you appear (to other people) to wake from a deep sleep. You then get up and do things. These may be quite complicated, like walking around or going up and down stairs. This can land you in embarrassing (and occasionally dangerous) situations. Unless someone else wakes you up, you will remember nothing about it the next day. Sleepwalking may sometimes happen after a night terror. If you sleep badly, or for too little time, you will be more likely to sleepwalk - so it's important to get enough good sleep.
 
A sleepwalker should be guided gently back to bed and should not be woken up. You may need to take precautions to protect them or other people, such as locking doors and windows, or locking away sharp objects, like knives and tools.
 
Night terrors can happen on their own, without sleepwalking. Like a sleepwalker, a person with night terrors will appear to wake suddenly from a deep sleep. They look half-awake and very frightened, but will usually settle back to sleep without waking up completely. All you can do is sit with them until they fall asleep again.
 
Night terrors are different from vivid dreams or nightmares as people don't seem to remember anything about them the next morning.
 
Nightmares
Most of us have had frightening dreams or nightmares. They usually happen during the later part of the night, when we have our most vivid and memorable dreams. They don't usually cause problems unless they happen regularly, perhaps because of an emotional upset. Nightmares often follow a distressing or life-threatening event such as a death, a disaster, an accident or a violent attack. Counselling may be helpful.
 
Restless Legs Syndrome (RLS)
  • You feel you have to move your legs (but also, sometimes, other parts of the body).
  • You may have uncomfortable, painful or burning feelings in your legs.
  • These feelings only bother you when you are resting.
  • They are generally worse at night.
  • Walking or stretching helps, but only for as long as you carry on doing it.
  • You may not be able to sit still in the daytime or sleep properly.
 
Sufferers usually first seek help in middle age, although they may have had symptoms since childhood. It often runs in families.
 
RLS usually occurs on its own. It can occasionally be caused by a physical illness, such as iron and vitamin deficiencies, diabetes or kidney problems. It can also happen in pregnancy.
 
If it is not caused by another physical illness, treatment depends on how bad it is. In mild RLS, the symptoms can usually be controlled by simple steps designed to help you sleep better. In more severe RLS, medications may help. These include medications used in Parkinson's disease, anti-epileptic medications, benzodiazepine tranquillisers and pain-killers.
 
If simple measures do not help, you can be referred to a sleep or movement disorders specialist.
 

Autism

Some people with autism do not seem to realise that night time is for sleeping, and may be up and about when everyone else wants to sleep. This will usually need the help of a specialist.

Self-help organisations

The Sleep Council
Freephone leaflet line: 0800 018 7923.
Promotes the benefits of sleeping well. Provides information leaflets on sleep and beds.
 
Helps snorers and their sleeping partners worldwide.
 
National Sleep Foundation
American website with information on sleep and sleep disorders
 
Narcolepsy Association UK (UKAN)
Tel: 0845 450 0394; email:info@narcolepsy.org.uk
Promotes the interests of people with narcolepsy and encourages better understanding of the illness.
 
Sleep Disorder Clinics. There are a number of Sleep Disorder Clinics, but referral to one of them should be made through your family doctor. Patients cannot refer themselves.

Further reading

Get a better night's sleep (Positive Health Guides) by Ian Oswald and Kirstine Adam

 

Sleep like a dream: the drug-free way, Rosemary Nichol


Insomnia: Doctor I can't sleep by Adrian Williams (Amberwood Publishing)

 

The Insomnia Kit: Practical advice for a good night's sleep, Chris Idzikowski

Audio Tapes

Coping with Sleep Problems.
Two-cassette audio pack with advice and self help tips on how to deal with sleep problems.
£13.99 (p&p inclusive). Available from the Booksales Department, The Royal College of Psychiatrists. Tel: 020 7235 2351 ext. 146.

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