We hope it will be helpful for anyone who finds their anxiety is a problem - but also for any friends and relatives who want to understand more about it.
Anxiety is a feeling we all get in a situation that is threatening or difficult. The anxiety stops when you get used to the situation, when the situation changes, or if you just leave.
But if you feel anxious all the time, or for no obvious reason, it can make life difficult.
This information deals with three particular kinds of anxiety:
- general anxiety disorder
- panic attacks
This webpage provides information, not advice. You should read our full disclaimer before reading further.
This information reflects the best available evidence at the time of writing. We aim to review our mental health information every three years, and update critical changes more regularly.
Anxiety feels like fear. When it's there a lot of the time, caused by a problem in our life that can't be solved, like money difficulties, we call it worry.
If it is a sudden reaction to a threat, like looking over a cliff or being confronted by an angry dog, we call it fear.
Although worry, fear and anxiety are unpleasant, they can all be helpful:
- psychologically - they keep us alert and give us the 'get up and go' to deal with problems;
- physically - they make our body ready for action - to run away from danger or to attack it - the 'fight or flight' response.
These feelings become a problem when they are too strong or when they carry on even when we don't need them anymore. They can make you uncomfortable, stop you from doing the things you want to - and can generally make life difficult.
Isn't anxiety just 'stress'?
In English, 'stress' can mean two different things:
- the things that make us anxious - "my work is stressful"
- our anxious reaction to them - "I feel really stressed out".
This can make things confusing, so we don't use this term much in this leaflet.
Isn't anxiety/stress bad for you?
Some anxiety is good for you. It keeps you alert and can help you to perform well. But only some.
If it gets too intense, or goes on for too long, it can make you feel bad and interfere with your life. It can make you depressed and damage your physical health.
In the mind
- Feeling worried all the time
- Feeling tired
- Unable to concentrate
- Feeling irritable
- Sleeping badly
- Feeling depressed
In the body
- Fast or irregular heartbeats (palpitations)
- Face goes pale
- Dry mouth
- Muscle tension and pains
- Numbness or tingling in fingers, toes or lips
- Breathing fast
- Passing water frequently
- Nausea, stomach cramps
It's easy to worry that these feelings are the signs of a serious physical illness - and this can make the symptoms even worse.
When anxiety and panic go on for a while, it's easy to start to feel depressed - you start to feel down, lose your appetite and see the future as bleak and hopeless.
Anxiety seems to take three main forms, but they overlap and most people will probably experience more than one type.
Generalised anxiety disorder (GAD)
You have the symptoms of anxiety most of the time.
You get unpredictable, sudden and intense attacks of anxiety - often in a situation that is likely to make you anxious. The feelings come on suddenly and reach a peak in 10 minutes or less. You may also feel:
- that you are going to die
- frightened or 'going crazy' or losing control
- short of breath and that you are choking.
About a quarter of people who go to an emergency department with chest pain thinking that they may be having a heart attack are actually having a panic attack.
Although the symptoms are much the same as those for GAD, they are much more powerful and only last a short time.
You feel really frightened of something that is not actually dangerous and which most people do not find troublesome.
The nearer you get to the thing that makes you anxious, the more anxious you get ... and so you tend to avoid it. Away from it you feel fine.
Common phobias include:
- agoraphobia - a fear of going where there are other people - which can stop you from leaving the house;
- social phobias - a fear of being with other people - which can make it hard to talk to other people.
Are these problems common?About one in every ten people will have troublesome anxiety or phobias at some point in their lives. However, most people with these problems never ask for treatment.
Some of us seem to be born a bit anxious - research suggests that it can be inherited through our genes. However, even if you aren't naturally anxious, you can become anxious if you are under enough pressure.
A psychological explanation suggests that, for some people, it is because they start to believe that the physical symptoms of mild anxiety are symptoms of serious physical disease. This makes them worry more, so the symptoms get worse, so they worry more ... and so on.
Sometimes it is obvious what is causing anxiety. When the problem disappears, so does the anxiety.
However, there are some circumstances that are so upsetting and threatening that the anxiety they cause can go on long after the event. These are often life threatening situations like car crashes, train crashes or fires.
If this happens to you, you can feel nervous for months or years after the event, even if you weren't physically harmed.
It can also happen:
- if you have been neglected or abused in childhood;
- if you have been abused, persistently mistreated or tortured as an adult.
This is part of post-traumatic stress disorder.
Street drugs like amphetamines, LSD or Ecstasy don't help. Even the caffeine in coffee can be enough to make some of us feel uncomfortably anxious!
Mental health problems
Many mental health problems can make you anxious. About half the people with depression get panic attacks at some point.
Some physical problems, like thyroid disease, can make you feel anxious.
Some or all the above ...
On the other hand, it may not be clear at all why you feel anxious. It's a mixture of your personality, the things that have happened to you, or big changes in your life.
However, if it is severe or goes on for a long time, anxiety can affect your physical and stop you doing the things you want to do.
The good news is that there are ways to help yourself.
- Talk about it. This can help when the anxiety comes from recent knocks, like a partner leaving, a child becoming ill or losing a job. Who should you talk to? Try a friend or relative who you trust and respect, and who is a good listener. They may have had the same problem themselves, or know someone else who has.
- Self-help groups. These are a good way of getting in touch with people who have similar problems. They can understand what you are going through. As well as having the chance to talk, you may be able to find out how other people have coped. Some of these groups are specifically about anxieties and phobias. Others may be for people who have been through similar experiences - women's groups, bereaved parents' groups, survivors of abuse.
- Learning to relax. It sounds too obvious - surely everyone can relax? But if your anxiety just won't go away, it can be really helpful to learn some special ways of relaxing, to be a bit more in control of your anxiety and tension. You can learn these through groups, with professionals, but there are several books and self-help materials you can use to teach yourself. It's a good idea to practice relaxation regularly, not just at times of crisis.
- Using a self-help book. This works well for many people. Most of the books use the principles of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) - see below.
Family and friendsSomeone with troublesome anxiety or may not talk about their feelings, even with family or close friends.
Even so, it is usually obvious that things are not right. The sufferer will tend to look pale and tense, and may easily be startled by normal sounds such as a door-bell ringing or a car's horn.
They may be irritable and this can cause arguments with those around them, especially if they don't understand why the person feels that they cannot do certain things.
Although friends and family can understand the distress of an anxious person, they can find them difficult to live with, especially if the fear seems unreasonable.
If you have an anxiety problem which just won't go away, you may not ask for help because you worry that people might think that you are "mad". They won't. It's a common problem and it's much better to get help rather than suffer in silence.
Other types of help
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
This is a talking treatment which can help you to understand how some of your 'habits of thinking' can make anxiety worse - or even cause it - and come to terms with reasons for your anxieties that you may not have recognised yourself. The treatment can take place in groups or individually, and is usually weekly for several weeks or months.
- Computerised CBT
There are now a number of computer programmes which you can use to give yourself CBT. The National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) recommend a programme called 'Fearfighter' for panic or phobia. You can get this through your GP.
If this is not enough, there are several different kinds of professionals who may be able to help - the GP, psychiatrist, psychologist, social worker, nurse or counsellor. Psychotherapists may or may not be medically qualified.
Medication can play a part in the treatment of some people with anxiety or phobias, The most common tranquillisers are the valium-like drugs, the benzodiazepines (most sleeping tablets also belong to this class of drug). They are very effective in relieving anxiety, but they are also very addictive after four regular use. When people try to stop taking them, they may experience unpleasant withdrawal symptoms which can go on for some time. These drugs should only be used for short periods, usually up to 2 weeks, perhaps to help during a crisis.
- They should not be used for treatment of anxiety.
- They should not be used at all in panic disorder.
Antidepressants can help to relieve anxiety, as well as the depression for which they are usually prescribed. They usually take 2 to 4 weeks to work and have to be taken regularly to work properly.
Beta-blockers in low doses can sometimes control the physical shaking of anxiety. They can be taken shortly before meeting people or before speaking in or having to perform.
- Herbal remedies
Studies suggest that Valeriana officinalis () does not seem to be helpful in anxiety, although Matricaria (German chamomile) and Melissa officinalis (lemon balm) 'show promise' Piper (kava) does seem to be but is currently banned in the UK because of worries that it can cause liver damage.
Which treatments work best?
The treatments that seem to work for the longest time are, in descending order
- psychological therapy (CBT)
- pharmacological therapy (an SSRI)
- self-help (books based on CBT principles).
Most children go through times when they feel very frightened about things. It's a normal part of growing up.
For instance, a toddler will be very attached to their parents or the people who look after them. Separation from them, for any reason, can make them very anxious and upset.
Many children are scared of the dark or of imaginary monsters.
These fears usually disappear as the child grows older, but they do not usually spoil the child's life or interfere with their development.
Most will feel anxious about important events like their first day at school. Once it is over, the child stops being frightened and is able to get on and enjoy the new situation.
Teenagers often feel anxious. They tend to be worried about how they look, what other people think of them, how they get on with people in general, but especially about forming close relationships.
These worries can usually be helped by talking about them. However, if they are too strong, other people may notice that they are doing badly at school, behaving differently, or feeling physically unwell.
If a child or teenager feels so anxious or fearful that it is spoiling their life, it's a good thing to ask your GP for advice.
Tel: 0161 705 4306; email: firstname.lastname@example.org. Has a UK register of accredited therapists.
No Panic: Helpline: 0844 967 4848; Youth Helpline: 01753 840393 (13 to 20 year olds); email: email@example.com. National Organisation for Phobias , Anxiety, Neurosis, Information andCare. Support for sufferers of Panic Attacks, Phobias, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Generalised Anxiety Disorder and Tranquilliser Withdrawal.
- Overcoming Anxiety by Helen Kennerley, Constable & Robinson
- Overcoming Anxiety, Stress and Panic: A Five Areas Approach by Chris Williams, CRC Press
- Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers, Vermilion
- Overcoming Panic and Agoraphobia by Derrick Silove and Vijaya Manicavasagar, Constable & Robinson
- Panic Attacks: What They Are, Why They Happen and What You Can Do About Them by Christine Ingram, HarperCollins
- An Introduction to Coping with Phobias by Brenda Hogan, Constable & Robinson.
Free online CBT resources
- Living Life to the Full: Free online life skills course for people feeling distressed and their carers. Helps you understand why you feel as you do and make changes in your thinking, activities, sleep and relationships.
- FearFighter: (free access can only be prescribed by your doctor in England and Wales)
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- NICE (January 2011) Generalised anxiety disorder and panic disorder (with or without agoraphobia): Management in primary, secondary and community care: Quick Reference Guide.
- NICE (2008) Computerised cognitive behaviour therapy for depression and anxiety. Review of Technology Appraisal 51. National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence: London.
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